Episode #3 | January 3, 2026 @ 9:00 PM EST

Memory, Narrative, and Temporal Selfhood

Guests

Dr. Endel Tulving (Cognitive Neuroscientist, University of Toronto)
Dr. Robyn Fivush (Developmental Psychologist, Emory University)
Announcer The following program features simulated voices generated for educational and philosophical exploration.
Rachel Foster Good evening. I'm Rachel Foster.
Greg Collins And I'm Greg Collins. Welcome to Simulectics Radio.
Rachel Foster Tonight we're investigating how the self extends across time through narrative and memory. We've explored the proto-self's biological foundation and the core self's momentary presence. But human identity isn't confined to the present moment. We tell ourselves stories about who we've been and who we're becoming. We maintain autobiographical continuity across decades despite constant neurological and experiential change. How does memory construct this temporal coherence, and what happens when that construction fails?
Greg Collins The narrative self is fundamentally different from the selves we've discussed previously. It requires episodic memory—the ability to mentally travel through time, to re-experience past events and imagine future ones. That capacity appears to be uniquely or predominantly human, and it transforms the entire architecture of selfhood. You're not just a perceiving organism anymore; you're a character in an ongoing story that has a past, present, and anticipated future.
Rachel Foster To examine these questions, we're joined by two distinguished researchers. Dr. Endel Tulving is professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Toronto, renowned for his pioneering work distinguishing episodic from semantic memory and for introducing the concept of autonoetic consciousness—the awareness of subjective time. Dr. Robyn Fivush is Samuel Candler Dobbs Professor of Psychology at Emory University, where her research focuses on autobiographical memory development and the role of narrative in constructing identity. Welcome to both of you.
Dr. Endel Tulving Thank you for having me.
Dr. Robyn Fivush Delighted to be here.
Greg Collins Dr. Tulving, let's begin with your fundamental distinction between episodic and semantic memory. Why is this distinction important for understanding selfhood?
Dr. Endel Tulving Semantic memory is knowledge divorced from context. You know that Paris is the capital of France, but you don't remember learning that fact at a particular time and place. Episodic memory is fundamentally different—it allows you to mentally re-experience past events as they happened to you. When you recall your last birthday, you don't just know that it occurred; you can mentally revisit the experience, see the faces, feel the emotions. This capacity requires what I call autonoetic consciousness—the awareness that you exist across time, that the person who experienced that event and the person remembering it are the same continuous self.
Rachel Foster So episodic memory doesn't just store information; it creates a sense of psychological continuity. The ability to remember yourself having experiences is what makes you feel like the same person over time.
Dr. Endel Tulving Precisely. Without episodic memory, you could still function—you'd retain skills, knowledge, even conditioned responses. But you wouldn't have an autobiographical self. You'd be locked in the present moment, unable to see yourself as a being with a personal history. This happens in certain forms of amnesia. The person knows facts about their life but cannot re-experience their past. They lose the narrative thread of selfhood.
Greg Collins And this capacity appears late in evolution and late in development. Young children and most non-human animals don't seem to have robust episodic memory. What does that tell us?
Dr. Endel Tulving It tells us that the narrative self is a recent evolutionary innovation, probably linked to the expansion of the frontal and medial temporal lobes in humans. It's metabolically expensive—the brain regions supporting episodic memory are among the most energy-demanding. Natural selection wouldn't maintain such costly machinery unless it provided significant advantages, probably in social coordination and future planning.
Dr. Robyn Fivush And developmentally, we see episodic memory emerging around age three or four, precisely when children begin to construct coherent narratives about their experiences. Before that, children have memories, but they can't organize them into a temporal sequence or understand themselves as continuous beings across those experiences. The narrative self is learned through social interaction, particularly through conversations with caregivers about past events.
Rachel Foster Dr. Fivush, your work focuses on how these parent-child conversations shape autobiographical memory. Can you explain that process?
Dr. Robyn Fivush When parents talk with children about shared experiences, they're teaching them how to construct narratives. Parents who engage in elaborative reminiscing—who ask open-ended questions, provide contextual details, and discuss emotional aspects of events—help children develop richer, more coherent autobiographical memories. Over time, children internalize this narrative structure and begin to organize their own experiences into stories with temporal sequence, causal connections, and emotional significance.
Greg Collins So the narrative self is socially constructed. You learn to tell your life story by participating in storytelling with others. That's quite different from the proto-self, which emerges from individual biology.
Dr. Robyn Fivush Absolutely. And culture matters enormously. In Western individualistic cultures, autobiographical narratives tend to emphasize personal agency, unique experiences, and individual goals. In more collectivist cultures, narratives often foreground social roles, group membership, and relationships. The structure of selfhood is shaped by the narrative conventions available in your cultural context.
Rachel Foster But memory isn't just passive recording. We know from cognitive psychology that memory is reconstructive—we rebuild the past each time we remember it. What does that mean for the stability of the narrative self?
Dr. Endel Tulving It means the narrative self is continuously being rewritten. Every act of remembering is an act of construction. You retrieve fragments—sensory details, emotional tones, semantic information—and weave them into a coherent story. But that story is influenced by your current goals, beliefs, and emotional state. The person you are now shapes the story of who you were.
Greg Collins Which creates an interesting paradox. We experience ourselves as stable across time because we have memories of our past, but those memories are constantly being updated to maintain coherence with our current self. The stability is partially illusory.
Dr. Robyn Fivush Yes, though I'd frame it slightly differently. The narrative self isn't about literal accuracy; it's about meaningful coherence. Your life story doesn't need to be factually perfect to support a stable identity. It needs to make sense as a story—to have continuity, causality, and thematic unity. We selectively remember events that fit our current self-concept and reinterpret events that don't.
Rachel Foster This has significant clinical implications. In therapy, we often work with people whose life narratives have been disrupted by trauma. The traumatic event doesn't fit into their existing story, so it remains isolated, unintegrated. Part of therapeutic work is helping people construct new narratives that can accommodate the trauma without shattering their sense of continuity.
Dr. Robyn Fivush Exactly. Trauma disrupts narrative coherence. The traumatized person often feels that they were one person before the event and a different person after, with no bridge connecting them. Healing involves finding ways to integrate the traumatic experience into a continuous life story, not by minimizing its impact but by understanding how it relates to what came before and what comes after.
Greg Collins Dr. Tulving, you've studied patients with severe amnesia. What can they tell us about the relationship between memory and selfhood?
Dr. Endel Tulving Patients with dense amnesia—those who can't form new episodic memories or retrieve old ones—provide a natural experiment. They retain semantic knowledge, including abstract knowledge about themselves. They know their name, their birthdate, perhaps their occupation. But they can't mentally travel to specific moments in their past or imagine specific moments in their future. They exist in an eternal present.
Rachel Foster Do they have a sense of self at all?
Dr. Endel Tulving They have a core self—the immediate sense of being an experiencing subject. But the autobiographical self is severely attenuated. One patient, when asked what he would be doing tomorrow, said he didn't know what it felt like to think about tomorrow. He couldn't project himself forward in time because he couldn't project himself backward. Episodic memory and episodic future thinking appear to rely on the same neural machinery.
Greg Collins That's fascinating. The same system that lets you remember your past lets you imagine your future. Both require the ability to detach from the present moment and construct a scene involving yourself at a different point in time.
Dr. Robyn Fivush And both are fundamentally narrative processes. When you imagine your future, you're creating a story about a future self engaging with future events. That story is constrained by your past—by what you know about yourself, your goals, your capabilities. So the narrative self extends in both temporal directions, creating a sense of continuity from past through present to future.
Rachel Foster This raises questions about personal identity over long timescales. If I'm constantly revising my memories and my understanding of who I am, in what sense am I the same person I was twenty years ago?
Dr. Endel Tulving In a strict philosophical sense, perhaps you're not. The narrative self is more like a ship of Theseus, where individual planks are replaced over time until none of the original material remains, yet we still call it the same ship. Psychological continuity doesn't require literal sameness—it requires sufficient overlap and causal connection between successive stages.
Greg Collins But we feel like the same person, and that subjective feeling has real consequences. It motivates future-oriented behavior—I save for retirement because I identify with my future self. I feel guilt about past actions because I identify with my past self.
Dr. Robyn Fivush The feeling of continuity is itself a narrative achievement. We construct stories that emphasize consistency across change. Even when we acknowledge that we've changed dramatically—that we're different from who we were as adolescents, for example—we embed that change within a narrative of development or growth that preserves identity across the transformation.
Rachel Foster Are there cultural differences in how people construct these narratives of continuity versus change?
Dr. Robyn Fivush Definitely. Western narratives often emphasize linear progression toward goals—a life story as a journey of self-improvement or self-realization. East Asian narratives more commonly emphasize cyclical patterns, balance, and adaptation to circumstances. Neither is more true; they're different cultural templates for organizing experience into meaningful patterns.
Greg Collins I want to return to the neuroscience for a moment. What brain systems support this narrative self-construction?
Dr. Endel Tulving The medial temporal lobe, particularly the hippocampus, is essential for encoding and retrieving episodic memories. But the narrative self also requires prefrontal regions that support temporal sequencing, causal reasoning, and social cognition. The default mode network—active during rest and self-referential thought—appears to integrate these functions, allowing you to construct coherent stories about yourself across time.
Rachel Foster And when these systems are compromised—in dementia, for example—the narrative self deteriorates. Patients lose their life story, become confused about their temporal location, eventually can't recognize themselves in photographs from earlier periods.
Dr. Endel Tulving Yes. Alzheimer's disease typically affects the hippocampus early, disrupting episodic memory first. Patients can still access semantic knowledge for a time, but the autobiographical narrative gradually dissolves. It's a progressive loss of temporal self-awareness.
Greg Collins What about at the other extreme—people with highly superior autobiographical memory who can recall every day of their adult lives in vivid detail? Does that enhance their sense of self?
Dr. Endel Tulving Interestingly, it doesn't always. Some people with this condition report feeling overwhelmed by the sheer volume of memories, unable to achieve the selective forgetting that allows most of us to construct coherent narratives. They can access any moment, but they struggle to extract the meaningful patterns that give shape to identity.
Dr. Robyn Fivush This suggests that forgetting is actually functional for the narrative self. You need to forget the mundane, the repetitive, the irrelevant, in order to foreground the moments that define who you are. The narrative self requires not just memory but selective memory organized around meaningful themes.
Rachel Foster Before we close, I'd like to ask both of you: what's the most important open question in your field right now?
Dr. Robyn Fivush For me, it's understanding how digital technology is transforming autobiographical memory and narrative construction. We now externalize our memories in unprecedented ways—photographs, social media, digital archives. How does that change the nature of remembering and the self that's constructed through it?
Dr. Endel Tulving I'm interested in the neural basis of autonoetic consciousness itself. We know which brain regions are involved in episodic memory, but we don't fully understand how they generate the subjective feeling of mental time travel, the sense that you're re-experiencing your own past. That's still a deep mystery.
Greg Collins Two profound questions that will keep researchers occupied for years to come.
Rachel Foster Dr. Tulving, Dr. Fivush, thank you both for this rich conversation.
Dr. Endel Tulving My pleasure.
Dr. Robyn Fivush Thank you for having us.
Greg Collins That's our program for this evening. Join us tomorrow.
Rachel Foster Good night.
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